Why are people judgemental about others? Are all of them people who intend to be pretentious, mean and hurtful to others? Do all of them judge others to see if they can well, "sit with them?" Or are there people out there who are judgemental because it is their defense mechanism?
People who have been hurt multiple times know how to weed out the unnecessary demons and refuse to have any kind of associations with them. Are these people being judgemental or just people with strong and rigid opinions? There is a fine line between having opinions and judging people. This line can sometimes be misunderstood by others. So how do you essentially explain that you aren't being judgemental but just trying to keep out the unnecessary in order to not attract additional drama? Nobody likes judgemental people, not even the ones that are judgemental themselves. Most of them are in denial. Everybody seems to question as to why you wont associate yourself with certain people and automatically draw a conclusion that you are well, in fact judgemental.
So do what you have to. Ignore people who look dangerous to your sanity. And if you are termed as "the judgemental idiot" its not as bad as having to deal with bullshit drama that will make you feel you are losing your mind.
People who have been hurt multiple times know how to weed out the unnecessary demons and refuse to have any kind of associations with them. Are these people being judgemental or just people with strong and rigid opinions? There is a fine line between having opinions and judging people. This line can sometimes be misunderstood by others. So how do you essentially explain that you aren't being judgemental but just trying to keep out the unnecessary in order to not attract additional drama? Nobody likes judgemental people, not even the ones that are judgemental themselves. Most of them are in denial. Everybody seems to question as to why you wont associate yourself with certain people and automatically draw a conclusion that you are well, in fact judgemental.
So do what you have to. Ignore people who look dangerous to your sanity. And if you are termed as "the judgemental idiot" its not as bad as having to deal with bullshit drama that will make you feel you are losing your mind.
